Single on Christmas
December 20, 2007

As a single gal among an array of couples, the holidays are usually the hardest time of the year for me. One of my best friends is living in pregnant bliss with her long time boyfriend and the other is getting ready to welcome home her traveling, intern of a boyfriend for good and settle down. Being around the constant cuddling, kissing, and the “aw baby”s is worst than watching those extremely cheesy jewelry commercials every Christmas.
It doesnt held that somehow I always find myself on the hotseat because Im lacking a fella when we’re all together.
Don’t get me wrong. I actually don’t mind being single. To me, the shelf life of a new boy is kind of like milk….it’ll start to go bad in about a week. Th efreedome of not having to constantly touch base with someone else whenever I make plans or having to constantly be considerate of their feelings all of the time.
Seeing my friends totally in love doesn’t make me crave an actual relationship, just the attention of course. That heated glance or passionate kiss. Someone to take pictures in front of the fire place with and to exchange gifts with.
But of course this isn’t the worst part.
Coming home to a family of match makers is!
Is it just me or is standing around with old friend an family, enjoying a delicious meal while having to hear “so, do you have a boyfriend yet?” only a million times, not sound like the perfect way to spend Christmas eve?
Really?
Well maybe it’s just me.
To be honest Ive had enough of being hung for being a single woman in this day an age.
So single women of the world stand up with me and be proud to be on the prowl. Go out tonight and flash a little leg. Bat your lashes and give that hottie on the end of the bar the “sexy eye.”
Have fun.
Live life.
Oh..and have Merry Christmas
